Our Story of Home Birth: Becca and Kyle

By: Care Messer | Birth Story, Hypnobirthing, Podcast | October 9, 2025


In this episode, Care welcomes back Kyle and introduces Becca as they recount their unique and emotional birth story. Becca called me for classes when she was only two months along and we started her birth prep with that phone call. Her friend Kaitlyn is a doula and prompted her to call early so we could get a handle on her initial anxieties in early pregnancy.

Coming from a small town in Nevada this couple had to organize a home birth differently. We talk about the decision to have a home birth at their midwife’s home, the intensity of labor, and the unexpected turns that showcase the importance of having a supportive and skilled birth team. 

Throughout their story, they emphasize the significance of good communication, the value of a supportive community, and being able to adapt to the ever-changing turns of pregnancy, birth, and parenthood. Their experience highlights the unpredictability of birth and the importance of preparation, flexibility, and support systems. We can only plan for so much and that’s when the trust and preparation kick in!

If you missed Kyle’s episode last week – here is the link!  https://youtu.be/EEcYlUmNMWM

Let’s connect: Have questions or comments for this episode?

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About the author:
Care is the founder of the Birth Education Center, San Diego HypnoBirthing and Cuddle Sanctuary San Diego. She is a Birth Educator, Hypnotherapist, Birth and Postpartum Doula, INNATE Care Provider, Erotic Blueprint Coach and also professional Cuddler. She specializes in connection work between people and increasing self boundaries for a more balanced life together.

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